{"id":287185,"date":"2021-02-03T08:26:56","date_gmt":"2021-02-03T01:26:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/?p=287185"},"modified":"2021-11-03T22:23:07","modified_gmt":"2021-11-03T15:23:07","slug":"ghosting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/tips-trick\/your-life\/ghosting\/","title":{"rendered":"Mengenal Fenomena Ghosting, Mengapa Orang Melakukannya &#038; Apa Dampaknya?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-287191\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3.png\" alt=\"Ghosting\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3-585x390.png?crop=1 585w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3-263x175.png?crop=1 263w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-3-300x200.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hai Quipperian!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ayo <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ngaku<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, siapa di sini yang pernah di-<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> atau justru melakukannya<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hmm,<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> atau jangan-jangan justru kamu enggak sadar sudah melakukan hal itu?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">hal ini <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sebenarnya sudah umum dilakukan orang lain untuk memutuskan hubungan, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lho<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Cara ini dianggap praktis dan cepat karena tidak membutuhkan konfirmasi apapun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baik si pelaku ataupun korban<\/span><i> <\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seolah harus mengerti jika hubungan tersebut sudah berakhir, tanpa adanya komunikasi yang jelas. Tapi, cara ini tidak baik<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ya, Quipperian dan sudah pasti menyakiti hati orang lain.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Namun, sebenarnya apa sih <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> itu? Yuk, cari tahu arti istilah ini selengkapnya!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Apa Itu <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><b>?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-287193 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-1.png\" alt=\"ghosting adalah\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-1.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-1-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-1-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ghosting <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adalah kondisi di mana seseorang yang sedang kamu taksir atau dekati mengakhiri hubungan tersebut tanpa penjelasan apapun.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mirip seperti sosok hantu yang datang tanpa diundang dan pergi tanpa pamit. Jadi enggak heran kalau perilaku ini disamakan dengan hantu alias <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghost<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.Sebenarnya perilaku ini memiliki kaitan erat dengan si Pemberi Harapan Palsu (PHP).\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tak hanya di dunia percintaan,<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> hal ini <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">juga bisa terjadi dalam hubungan pertemanan platonis. Ini merupakan jenis pertemanan yang keduanya memiliki kecenderungan untuk &#8216;tertarik&#8217; satu sama lain, namun tetap memilih untuk berteman saja. Karena punya perasaan tidak enak atau<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sudah memasuki area <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">friendzone, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">maka salah satu biasanya bisa kabur alias <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, demi menjaga perasaan satu sama lain.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Mengapa <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><b> Populer?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-287192\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-2.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-2.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-2-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-2-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Istilah ini sebenarnya sudah populer di tahun 1990-an. Beberapa penulis dan cendwkiawan budaya pop menggunakan istilah tersebut untuk menggambarkan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghost writer<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dalam musik hip-hop. Lalu, kata ini mulai populer lagi semenjak media sosial dan aplikasi kencan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">online <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">makin <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">booming<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dilansir <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Psychology Today<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, menyebutkan kalau dalam budaya kencan modern saat ini, sekitar 50 persen pria dan wanita menjadi korban <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Bahkan beberapa di antaranya justru enggak tahu bagaimana harus bereaksi ketika mengalami fenomena tersebut.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Alasan Orang Melakukan <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-287190 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-4.png\" alt=\"alasan orang melakukan ghosting\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-4.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-4-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-4-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> juga tidak terbatas hanya hubungan romantis, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lho<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Kalau kamu berjanji dengan teman dan kamu tidak datang, secara enggak disadari kamu sudah melakukan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Pelaku <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">biasanya akan menghilang setelah melakukan komunikasi yang intens.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alasan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dalam psikologi yang kerap terjadi adalah menghindari ketakutan tertentu atau menghindari konflik. Mungkin saja, orang tersebut menghindari menyakiti perasaaan seseorang atau malas menghadapi percakapan yang rumit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tapi tetap saja, tindakan ini tidak baik karena merupakan sifat pengecut dalam menyelesaikan masalah. Lalu, apa ya yang menyebabkan beberapa orang melakukan hal itu?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Berikut ini adalah beberapa alasan mengapa seseorang melakukan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dia memang tidak menyukai kamu.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jadi terlalu sibuk sehingga tidak mementingkan hubungannya dengan kamu lagi.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kehabisan bahan obrolan.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Merasa takut mengenal seseorang yang baru atau takut reaksinya jika putus.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tidak sadar kalau mereka melakukan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mungkin saja hubungan yang dijalani berdampak negatif pada kualitas hidupnya.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Baca juga: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quipper.com\/id\/blog\/tips-trick\/arti-dan-sejarah-gabut-baper-mager\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gabut, Baper, Mager Itu Apa Sih? Ini Definisi, Sejarah, dan Tips Menghindarinya!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><b>Perbedaan <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><b> dengan <\/b><b><i>Silent Treatment<\/i><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-287189\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-5.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-5.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-5-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-5-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Siapa di sini yang bertengkar dengan teman atau gebetan tapi memilih untuk mendiamkannya selama berhari-hari? Kalau seperti itu, artinya kamu enggak sadar sudah melakukan <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">silent treatment,<\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">guys<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Tapi jangan khawatir, kamu enggak sendirian.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Banyak orang yang juga melakukan hal ini sementara waktu untuk menghindari pertengkaran biar tidak terus berlanjut. Meskipun bertujuan baik, tapi hal ini tak akan membuat hubungan membaik.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Silent treatment <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">justru bisa membuat hubungan jadi renggang dan akhirnya berpisah jika terlalu lama dibiarkan. Ya, seperti yang kita tahu kalau komunikasi memang kunci dari sebuah hubungan yang berhasil.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apabila ada masalah, sekecil apapun masalahnya, tetap harus dibicarakan baik-baik dan dengan kepala dingin ya, Quipperian. Supaya kamu bisa tahu inti permasalahan dan mencari solusinya bersama.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lalu, apa bedanya dengan<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jika <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">silent treatment <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dilakukan seseorang sebagai bentuk emosional atau kemarahannya untuk memberi pelajaran kepada orang lain, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dilakukan karena orang itu memang sudah tidak mau lagi berhubungan dengan kamu.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Mencegah Perilaku <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-287188\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-6.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-6.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-6-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-6-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quipperian, ada beberapa cara yang bisa kamu lakukan untuk terhindar dari perilaku <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting.<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Jadi, sebelum memilih dan memutuskan untuk dekat dengan orang lain, coba dulu deh simak tipsnya berikut ini ya.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>1. Perjelas Hubungan dan Beri Batasan<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cobalah untuk memperjelas hubungan dengan lawan bicaramu. Apakah dia hanya ingin berteman atau mungkin membina sesuatu yang lebih? Kejujuran dan transparansi bisa mencegah perilaku <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Berikan batasan kalau kamu enggak mendapat respon yang baik, itu tandanya kamu harus mengakhiri hubungan tersebut. Tak ada salahnya melindungi diri demi kesiapan hati di masa depan, Quipperian. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cieee<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>2. Peka Adalah Kunci<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Biasanya ketika dua orang tertarik satu sama lain, mereka akan melakukan apapun untuk mempertahankan hubungan tersebut. Mereka akan menemukan berbagai cara untuk bersatu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nah, coba <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">deh <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">peka dengan kode-kode yang diberikan orang lain supaya kamu enggak terjebak di situasi berharap lebih. Pokoknya, jangan biarkan diri kamu berjuang sendirian, ya. Karena berjuang sendirian itu capek!<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><b>3. Beri Batasan Waktu<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kamu belum mendengar kabar dari mereka selama beberapa hari bahkan beberapa minggu? Segera beri ultimatum, Quipperian. Misalnya, kamu bisa mengirim pesan yang meminta mereka untuk menelepon atau mengirim SMS besok, jika tidak itu tandanya hubungan kamu dan lawan bicara sudah berakhir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Memang agak <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">harsh, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ya, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">guys, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tapi tidak ada salahnya untuk mencegah diri sendiri di-<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dan menimbulkan dampak negatif di kemudian hari.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>Dampak <\/b><b><i>Ghosting<\/i><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-287187\" src=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-7.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-7.png 800w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-7-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/quipperhome.wpcomstaging.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/Ghosting-7-768x512.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sebenarnya, penolakan emosional itu mengaktifkan jalur rasa sakit yang sama di otak seperti rasa sakit secara fisik. Ibaratnya, patah hati itu sama rasanya sakitnya seperti kamu jatuh. Tapi parahnya, ketika orang terkena <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, penolakan itu justru memperkuat <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">insecure<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> di dalam diri.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kamu jadi ragu terhadap nilai diri kamu dan memikirkan apa yang salah dengan diri sehingga mereka meng-<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> kamu. Perasaan enggak berdaya karena ditinggalkan begitu saja bisa berdampak trauma berat. Akibatnya, korban bisa mengalami depresi bahkan kehilangan tujuan hidup.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bukan hanya korban, pelaku juga mengalami dampak dari <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting, lho<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Mereka akan membiasakan diri tidak bertanggung jawab dengan hal apapun. Di pikiran mereka akan terpatri kalau meninggalkan seseorang tanpa kejelasan adalah hal yang lumrah. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, jadilah manusia yang bertanggung jawab, ya!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sad to say, ghosting <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nampaknya sudah menjadi hal umum saat ini, tetapi bukan berarti hal ini baik untuk dilakukan. Cobalah pertimbangkan dan memposisikan diri berada di pihak korban. Perlakukan orang lain sebagaimana kamu ingin diperlakukan, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that\u2019s the golden rule.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Buat kamu yang terkena <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ghosting<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, yuk <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">move on<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dan berhenti menyalahkan diri kamu sendiri. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s nothing wrong with you<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Habiskan waktu kamu dengan orang-orang tersayang dan lebih baik wujudkan kembali mimpi-mimpimu karena hidup harus tetap berjalan.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kembali belajar juga bisa jadi cara untuk melupakan masalah kamu sejenak. Apalagi kalau belajar lewat <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/subscribe.quipper.com\/signup\/id\"><b>Quipper Video<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> yang bikin belajar jadi hal yang menyenangkan. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Subscribe and say no to<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> galau ya!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hai Quipperian! Ayo ngaku, siapa di sini yang pernah di-ghosting atau justru melakukannya? 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